Interacting with opposing / different / toxic perspectives

Trying to figure out best way to harmonize opposing views; 1.) "allow life to show you and adapt to the changes" vs 2.) "this is how it's been for generations and anything else is wrong".
Depression

Trying to figure out best way to harmonize opposing views; 1.) "allow life to show you and adapt to the changes" vs 2.) "this is how it's been for generations and anything else is wrong".

I don't like your ugly world and it's bugging me that I can't find a world-view where I can have love & trust with hostile forces on the attack.

Watched Allegiant and had dreams of saving the planet with co-workers lol. Ramble about the Completion method by Nithyananda.

There's so much about this world that is not right in our souls, allow life to be your teacher.

I don't want to be one of those people that constantly work on the shadow and I feel like I'm at the end of a cycle, still healing, still waiting for that last thread that will give me the breakthrough.

Deal with your own baggage before pointing the finger. When others are harmful, hurtful, doing anything that insults your soul – don’t lower your own virtue to match their vibration – you become an “enabler” – that just enables them to stay there which does nothing to help them; and your soul will wrench your heart with all it’s might until you free yourself – you will experience the suffering that comes from ignoring your own values. Keep true to your own soul’s truth. They may not understand, but that’s not your role. Your role is to live true to your own values. To follow your own pure heart’s guidance.

What could I have done to prevent myself getting into that situation and why didn't I pay attention to logic

life is easier if you realize you are always adapting to that which has never been created before

Choosing to take responsibility for our own place in the game.

Everything is always new, so you can't go through life flawlessly because you have never lived this moment before.

Questioning the I Ching about Karma

Asking the I Ching about life after death