Acceptance is the key to Exit Hell / Dark Night of the Soul
Navigating Dark Night of the Soul. Genuine acceptance ‘of the unacceptable’ heals all wounds (and is the doorway out of the hell realm)
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Lessons from my Dark Night of the Soul
Lessons learned from my Dark Night of the Soul – and where I’m at. The best and worst of what has developed gradually whilst trying to come up for air.
No decision is wrong
We are not our decisions and no decision is wrong because we made the choice with the information at hand. All decisions contribute to your development and are an integral part of your evolving existence yet they are still separate from the self.
My Fave Life Metaphor (Deep hole in the sidewalk)
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.. I fall in.. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.. I fall in again.. deep hole.. fall in… There is a deep hole in the sidewalk – I walk around it.
Dealing with a Narcissist & Don’t Cross your own Soul’s boundaries
We can list all the ways we can “fix them” but that’s “other person awareness”. Go find ‘your’ pain, nurture it and learn from it – take responsibility for seeking to understand yourself.
Pathway to your Potential (Pro/Con list)
This exercise shows you where you are aligned. It shows you your boundaries, value-system, where your integrity is; where you’re at & where you ‘wish’ you were at. It shows you a pathway to being your potential – what you aspire to be, what you are learning in this human life, what you REALLY value and what is actually important to you.
“Neediness” vs “Love”
As I see the desperation in others now, that neediness, that “begging” kind of emotion that they are feeling when they are “in love” with someone, from this new space of what I identified as being “disconnected from my heart”, I realize that there could be something to this. That they are also identifying “love” as this “needing another to approve of them because they don’t feel worthy enough to do that for themselves”
Purifying negative so that Evil cannot enter
Anyway, so I have these 2 conflicting experiences / beliefs. That they are either real, or a conjuring from the collation of negative-influences within my own sub-conscious. Even if they are real or not real, the answer is the same… you have to ‘be solid within’ – be aware of your own weaknesses, fears, vulnerabilities and cultivate inner-strength and an ‘environment’ that negative doesn’t like to reside/dwell. That fear or any kind of negative-influences cannot ‘run the show’ or ‘attack’ if you are not ‘open for business’ – so the answer is to be-friend that ‘negative’ exists and cultivate inner-strength and purify the negative thoughts within.
Cried deeply with much validation after watching this [NDE]
I don’t think life will ever can go back to the same as I was before this last couple of years of ‘undoing’ and ‘unbeing’, but having all these validations tonight is definitely going to change my perception again.
Van Karaoke – Shifting a “mood”
Reuploaded a shortened version of last year’s Van Karaoke. I saw one of my “fun” videos on Instagram tonight and I really miss that girl. I want to remind myself to choose a better life again & ignore the haters.
