[IChing] Intimacy with the wrong person (Part 4)

Turning to the IChing for guidance with life's hard questions.

Turning to the IChing for guidance with life's hard questions.

Turning to the IChing for guidance with life's hard questions.

Turning to the IChing for guidance with life's hard questions.

Whether it's real, imagined, your own fears/paranoia, a psychotic disorder, a mental illness, repetitive-negative-thoughts, negative-polarized, or old-programming being shed, once you have put any kind of "outside force" (demons, negative entities, evil, narc, spirits, ghosts, reptilians, darkness) into your world, it turns your life upside down. You can't navigate work, social situations, family, relationships, even your own one-on-one time with self, without these negative influences being "part of your reality".. or at least part of your perception on reality, and so people's very helpful advice of "it's not real, don't believe it" doesn't really work, because you have 'made it part of your perspective' on the very real reality that you are experiencing.

Empower yourself & heal yourself

Wow, these 2 videos came up in my related videos tonight on YouTube and in hindsight... they have extremely good advice that I wish I had known before my dark night :)

Navigating Dark Night of the Soul. Genuine acceptance 'of the unacceptable' heals all wounds (and is the doorway out of the hell realm)

Lessons learned from my Dark Night of the Soul - and where I'm at. The best and worst of what has developed gradually whilst trying to come up for air.

We are not our decisions and no decision is wrong because we made the choice with the information at hand. All decisions contribute to your development and are an integral part of your evolving existence yet they are still separate from the self.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.. I fall in.. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.. I fall in again.. deep hole.. fall in... There is a deep hole in the sidewalk - I walk around it.

We can list all the ways we can "fix them" but that's "other person awareness". Go find 'your' pain, nurture it and learn from it - take responsibility for seeking to understand yourself.

This exercise shows you where you are aligned. It shows you your boundaries, value-system, where your integrity is; where you're at & where you 'wish' you were at. It shows you a pathway to being your potential - what you aspire to be, what you are learning in this human life, what you REALLY value and what is actually important to you.